When No Decision is a Good One

When No Decision is a Good One

Remember back in the day, when our parents and teachers would be saying, and sometimes nagging daily, “please…make a decision”? Of course, we were being asked what coat to wear outside…. what we wanted for supper……what answer would be needed for that difficult...
A Real Gift

A Real Gift

How often do we use the phrase, “to move on”? It seems that this piece of advice is the handy way to tell people how they should react from trauma. This phrase gets us out of the pregnant pause in a conversation when speaking to someone who has recently lost a loved...
Find Your Safe Space

Find Your Safe Space

One of my younger clients recently suffered the tragedy of losing her husband in an accident. I was asked by her children to step in and try to give some guidance to their mother moving forward. I remember in our first conversation her saying, “I’ve lost my safe...